Men’s Groups

 

Our men’s groups meet two times each month over Zoom for two hours each session. Each meeting includes distinctions led and facilitated by our experienced men’s coaches, “hot seat” coaching, and opportunities to connect with other men, share, and get support.

Our groups

Arena Founders Group

Started in March 2020 and facilitated by co-founders Coach Nick & Coach Jake, The Arena Founders Group is for men who want to be supported in a radically different way. Built around a higher purpose to inspire men to dare greatly, this group is made up of men from 28 to 74-years-old and from ten different states.

“If a man happens to find himself – if he knows what he can be depended upon to do, the limits of his courage, the position from which he will no longer retreat, the degree to which he can surrender his inner life to some woman [or man], the secret reservoirs of his determination, the extent of his dedication, the depth of his feeling for beauty, his honest and unpostured goals – then he has found a mansion which he can inhabit with dignity all the days of his life.”

The Fires of Spring, James Michener

Who are our groups for?

Our groups are for men who are committed to getting off the sidelines and stepping into the arena in every aspect of their lives. Our groups are for you if:

  • You’re having a “Groundhog Day” experience and no matter what you do, you keep getting the same results.

  • You have HUGE personal or professional goals.

  • You’re going through, or have gone through, a major transition in the last year.

  • You want to make a bigger impact and take your career (or life, in general) to the next level.

  • You want to develop deeper friendships and talk about the things that actually matter.

  • You want to experience more connection, intimacy, and vulnerability with your significant other, children, parents, friends, etc.

  • You’re looking for a community to hold you accountable to being the man you want to become.

 

Member Benefits

  • Access to both two-hour Zoom sessions each month.

  • Specially designed Maximum Value Practices (MVPs) to help you implement your learnings in every aspect of your life.

  • A spot in a private Google Group for your specific group, where you’ll be able to connect with men between sessions, ask for support, and build lasting relationships.

  • Annual Group Retreats to gather in person.

  • Discounted 1:1 coaching sessions with your group facilitator. (COMING SOON)

  • Discounted access to Arena Leadership Trainings and other Arena events.

What our members are saying

 

“I joined to reignite the meaningful connections with other like-minded men I had been missing. Being in a facilitated group with men aligned in pursuit of personal growth founded upon vulnerability, respect, support, confidentiality and openness to change and new understandings is an invaluable gift.”

— Mark D, retired but still curious & exploring

 

“Joining the Arena Men's Group is one of the best decisions I have ever made. The coaching and support of the group has helped me grow significantly in the last few years and has made me a better husband, son, brother, friend, and overall human. With the support of this group, I have also learned to love myself better and know that I do matter in this world.”

— Duggan C.

 

“The Arena helped me grow as a man emotionally. I came in wanting to learn things about myself, and how to address them. How to "get busy living" instead of having life carry me along. I feel more alive, I feel more engaged. I'm enjoying and appreciating life more. The Arena men's group is a group of men that are not afraid to mix it up. To dig deep into ourselves and to lean on one another for support. The impact on my life has been amazing. I have learned and been exposed to thoughts and ideas that have helped me grow as a person. not to mention father, grandfather, husband and friend.”

— Dave Freed, Husband, Father, Grandfather and sometimes IT Professional

“The Arena Mens Group has allowed me to make some lifelong and genuine friends who I trust and feel comfortable to speak to with my most treasured feelings and secrets. It allows me to get their feedback and insight to know if my view and way of thinking is on track or if I should look at it another way. I have found that I am using these skills at home, work, social and more. Everyone around me have noticed this growth and like this version of me so much more.”

— Esh

 FAQs

 
  • Every session is unique, but you can expect each session to include large group and breakout room discussions framed around questions asked by our facilitators. We believe that learning is a cycle made up of Action, Reflection, and Sharing, and we use this model throughout our group sessions. While some sessions will be more focused on a particular skill or topic, others focus on all the men in the group sharing, supporting each other, and deepening the bonds of the group. As we always tell our participants, these are your groups. You, as much we, determine what they are like.

  • If you’re interested in joining one of our groups, schedule a discovery session with us so we can learn more about what you’re looking for, answer any questions you have, and talk you through our membership model. Depending on what you’re looking for, we may recommend a particular group.

    If you’re looking to join an existing group, you’ll visit that group as a guest twice. If, after your second visit, you’re interested in joining, we’ll get you set up with a membership.

    If you’re looking to join a new group, you’ll have a follow-up call with that group’s facilitator to talk through next steps and complete onboarding.

    We ask that all new members commit to a minumim of three months when joining.

  • We have three membership levels:

    Annual $1600/year
    Quarterly — $420/quarter
    Monthly — $147/month

    We accept payment via credit card or PayPal.

    All memberships renew automatically and can be canceled at any time. We ask that all new members commit to three months, though you can pay monthly.

  • A big part of the men’s group experience is getting to connect 1:1 with other men in the group, including your facilitators. While each facilitator creates his own rules around how much access participants have to them outside of session hours, we also offer discounted coaching packages you can purchase in addition to your Arena Men’s Group membership.

    MORE DETAILS COMING SOON.

  • We believe that sharing and connection are key components of a successful men’s group. In fact, the work we do every two weeks over Zoom is a small portion of a group’s value. The Google Group is the place where participants interact between sessions. Group facilitators will ask questions in the group, send updates, and offer coaching. We encourage our participants to post in the Google Group to ask for support, share what’s going on in their lives, and acknoweldge other men in the group for their progress and growth.

    When you join an Arena Men’s Group, you’ll receive a Google Group Guidelines document that will help you navigate how to participate in a way that generates and receives value.

  • Twice per year, each group has an Arena Retreat Weekend to gather in person. These retreats go from a Friday night (around 6pm) to Sunday midday (around 1pm). During this time, the group does a combination of workshop exercises, group bonding, and hanging out. It’s an amazing opportunity to get to know the other group members in a deeper way. Food and housing costs are not included and are gathered as a group.

  • Yes, after every session we assign what we call a Maximum Value Practice. This MVP is an opportunity for you to take what we’ve explored in the group and bring it into your life. Being in The Arena isn’t just about showing up differently when you’re in the men’s group but about bringing that difference to all of your relationships. Engaging with the MVPs isn’t always about completion but about striving to show up differently, be uncomfortable, and learn.

  • You must be at least 18-years-old to participate in an Arena Men’s Group, but that’s our only limitation. We have men from 29 to 74 in our groups and that diversity of age is something that many men find great value in. Wherever you are on the age spectrum, you’re welcome in our groups.

  • Our groups are open to anyone who identifies as a man. That’s that only definer we use. If you relate to yourself like you’re a man, you’re welcome in one of our groups. What it means to be a man is changing - masculinity is changing - and embracing that change is something we believe is paramount for creating loving and inclusive communities now and in the future.

Our coaches 

  • Nicholaos Papadopoulos, SHRM-CP

    CO-FOUNDER & LEAD FACILITATOR

  • Jake Fishbein, PCC

    CO-FOUNDER & LEAD FACILITATOR

  • Jason Misrahi

    ARENA COACH

Want to visit an Arena Men’s Group? Book your discovery call today.